Community

Real profiles. Lively energy. Clear respect.

seoulmate should feel bright, social, and safe. These standards keep the app playful without letting things get messy.

01

Respect Boundaries

Everyone moves at a different speed.

Ask first. Listen closely. Leave room for a no.

Keep public profiles non-explicit.

Consent matters in every chat and every meetup.

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02

Be genuinely you

Use recent photos that actually look like you.

Keep your age, intent, and availability honest.

No fake personas, no impersonation, no deepfakes.

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03

Kindness over ego

No bullying, threats, or intimidation.

No pile-ons, guilt trips, or repeated unwanted contact.

If the energy is not mutual, unmatch and move on.

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04

Adults Only

You must be 18+.

No minors.

No childhood photos.

Zero tolerance.

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05

Keep conversations mutual

Flirting should feel welcome, not pushed.

No pressure for replies, meetups, or intimacy.

A maybe is not a yes.

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06

No scams, selling, or side hustles

seoulmate is for connection, not advertising.

No selling.

No recruiting.

No escorting.

No sugar arrangements.

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07

Protect privacy

Don't post phone numbers, emails, or social handles publicly.

Never share passwords or financial details.

Move off-app only when the trust is real.

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08

No hate or discrimination

No racism, misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, or slurs.

No fetishization disguised as compliments.

Respect identity, culture, and boundaries.

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09

Keep content classy

Only upload content you own or have permission to share.

No graphic content.

No stolen photos or AI fakes pretending to be real people.

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10

Use seoulmate fairly

No spam.

No manipulation.

No fake reports.

No using bots or third-party hacks.

Play fair.

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11

Real-world safety matters

Off-app harm can still lead to action on seoulmate.

Serious threats, stalking, and exploitation may trigger bans and legal escalation.

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See something wrong?

Report it in-app.

Every report is confidential.

Our team reviews fast and acts when needed.

You help keep the vibe respectful by speaking up.

If guidelines are broken:

  • Warning
  • Content removal
  • Feature restrictions
  • Temporary suspension
  • Permanent ban

We may act on behavior that happens off the app if it affects our community.

seoulmate works best when people lead with honesty.

Better energy makes better matches.

Respect keeps the app bright, playful, and safe.

Let's keep it that way.

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